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Wednesday, September 24, 2008

Are women second class citizens in India??

Chandigarh may be one of the prettiest cities of India but what I read last week makes me feel that it is probably one of the "ugliest" too. It has the dubious distinction of having the worst gender ratio in the country ( 877 females per 1000 males). Delhi our national capital and Haryana that otherwise prosperous state are the two other regions in the top three of this list of shame. Prenatal gender-determination is a crime according to a law passed many years ago but it seems female foeticide is rampantly practised in these areas. This is one national problem which is caused as much by the rich & educated as by the illiterate & poor. The law of demand and supply has already taken over in these North Indian states - girls now command a monetary premium (reverse dowry) & brothers are sometimes forced to share a common wife, just like in MAHABHARAT - (though for entirely different reasons).

Do we as a community have a "return on investment" kind of approach when it comes to our natural preference for male children?? Are we so guided by this बुढापे की लाठी philosophy that even mothers agree to abort girl foetuses ( like scoring a self goal)?

Females have been discriminated against in every society (encompassing all religions) during the progress of human civilization - the main reason of course was that males wrote all the rules. Did you know that females got the right to vote as late as 2006 in Kuwait, 1971 in Switzerland, 1946 in Belgium, 1945 in France, 1928 in Britain and 1920 in USA? Females are barred from becoming a Pope or even an Imam in a mosque and are generally accorded an inferior status in rituals of all religions. Have you ever heard of a female शंकराचार्य? It is estimated that over 60,000 women were once burnt by Christians by branding them as witches. In the Hindu system of सती, women were literally murdered and then glorified. Islam even today refuses to grant alimony to a divorced wife. Politically, all parties are so blatantly hypocritic that for years they have been proclaiming gender parity but when it comes to reserving 33% seats for women in parliament, they turn a completely blind eye towards the issue.

Coming back to the burning problem of female foeticide, we have seen that mere passing of laws has not worked - maybe we should allow capital punishment to be given to such offenders. But I really think that the time has come for religions to "pay back" for the years of gender - disparity that they have been indirectly advocating. It is high time that opinion leaders like रामदेवबाबा , श्री रविशंकर , आसारामबापू & all शंकराचार्य loudly declare that :

[1] Any Hindu family that demands dowry during marriage will be ex-communicated; [2] It is not true that moksha can be achieved only when a SON lights your funeral pyre - a daughter is equally eligible to do so; [3] Anyone found aborting a female foetus or assisting such an act will be ostracised and no one will have रोटी - बेटी का व्यवहार with such families.

Religion has such immense power over people's minds that it is capable of bringing about this social transformation - unless of course if the religious leadership is itself not convinced about gender disparity being an issue worth paying attention to.

4 comments:

Chaitra's mom said...

Indeed the gender disparity is the worst symptom shown by our so called civilized society.

I personally feel addressing the issue in the schools and educational institutions to raise the awareness and also some laws passed by the government which impose strict punisments may change the situation a little..

As u rightly pointed out the religious and spiritual leaders hav the great role to play given their prominence in the present society..

Anonymous said...

uncle...
nice posts.

-- Nihar

Anonymous said...

Your column is quite interesting and thought provoking. Please keep on sending regularly. Missing women is really a serious problem of our society. Panjab, Haryana are the worst sufferers mainly due to spending on marriages and craze for holding assets and properties.Literacy and awareness especially among women may help to control the problem to some extent.

Vinayak

Anonymous said...

Before the times of Gargi / Maitreyi, Indian society was matriarchial. Women used to work for the living and support of the family .They even learned and recited the Vedic Ruchas .
Later they were denied this privilege on some flimsy grounds of being weaker and how they were needed to tend to children etc. Jane kaha gaye wo din!
Probably women are becoming their own shatru.
Sex determination is actually a boon .Recently Mrs Mehta was denied the right of termination of her pregnancy .Perhaps the medical report was not very clear about the teretogenicity of the foetus.
Its too sad that this advanced test is taken as a boon by some imbecile people of our society .In my opinion, female foeticide is a curse to Indian anpadh log . It is heart breaking when educated people succumb to this.

Well I strongly believe that now we should read the famous saying abala jeevan hay tumhari yehi kahani --aanchal me hai doodh aur ankhon me pani to sabla tumhari yhi hai pehchan bag main lap top aur office ki tum shan

Gender ratio is falling day by day. in contrast we observe that gender difference is diminishing among today’s young generation. Boys and girls are more friendly and share ideas more freely .Why do they change after getting married ? Is it the impact of social structure? Religion never advocates such discrimination which may lead to female foeticide.
Even though the picture is gloomy there are some golden specs. Indira Nooyi is leading one amongst the top ten companies in the world. The GM of ICICI bank is a female .In IAS and other examinations females top the list. This clearly shows females are equally competent.The fair sex will always outshine the males provided there is a fair competition. Statistics shows that evil practices are less predominant in more literate societies .With the spread of literacy such evil practices are less common in Maharashtra as compared to other states .NGOs may take more active role. Will the current trend of Westernization of the society help curb such evil practices?